Why I can’t plan special occasion outfits too far in advance

 

all in a day lavendar top from target, rebecca minkoff purse, wide leg dark wash jeans and celine sunglasses.jpgall in a day lavendar top from target, rebecca minkoff purse, wide leg dark wash jeans and celine sunglasses.jpgtarget style all in a day wrap dress, pink fossil purse and steve madden block heelstarget style all in a day wrap dress, pink fossil purse and steve madden block heelstarget style all in a day wrap dress, pink fossil purse and steve madden block heels.jpg at legacy westTarget who what wear green foral skirt and cold shoulder black top with nude pumps and rebecca minkoff purse and celine sunnies.jpgTarget who what wear green foral skirt and cold shoulder black top with nude pumps and rebecca minkoff purse and celine sunnies.jpgTarget who what wear green foral skirt and cold shoulder black top with nude pumps and rebecca minkoff purse and celine sunnies.jpgHello berries! So if y’all are like me, then you’ll get me when I say I have been avoiding thinking of my Easter Sunday outfit. Yeesh – as a girl obsessed with style you would think I would have this outfit planned weeks in advanced. But I don’t – cause my mind can change ideas very rapidly. To be honest – whenever major holidays like Easter, Christmas or New Years roll around, I usually wait till the last minute to put my outfit together. Now, I may have some ideas in my head and I’ll try them on a few days before – cause this girl doesn’t like too big of surprises (wrong size, not appropriate or it looks different on my curves than the hanger). But the decision of what I will be wearing on the holiday doesn’t occur until the day of.

The reason being, I dress myself depending on my mood, how I think my body looks that day and the overall vibe I want to give off that certain day. Whenever I have planned outfits far in advance, more often than not, I end up switching them around completely. I do that because, sometimes I just doubt the outfit the entire night or day because I’m simply not feeling it or myself in the look.

So currently I am debating between all these outfits I have featured on the blog today. And who knows – I might go a completely different route and wear something that isn’t even featured. But what I am confident in is that I will dress for me on Easter.

Many times I have worn something because a family member told me it looked good. But if you asked me, I felt uncomfortable and had zero confidence while wearing it. We sometimes let the people around us influence our style decisions – and truthfully, we shouldn’t allow this to happen (take it from someone who has allowed this to happen plenty of times!).

Dress for yourselves. If you feel gorgeous, confident, sexy or downright happy with an outfit choice, OWN IT! Because people will complement you, not just because ya look good (cause I’m sure you do!) but because you are projecting that feeling of confidence, happiness, beauty or sexiness to others. So don’t let someone put you off an outfit because they are not feeling it – if you are, then that’s all that should matter.

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Hola berries! Si son como yo, entonces me van a entender cuando les digo que eh estado evitando planear mi outfit para Pascua este domingo. Ósea pensarían que una persona como yo que le fascina el estilo, planeara su outfit con semanas de anticipación. Pero no lo hago – porque puedo cambiar de opinion sobre un outfit de un día para otro.

La verdad es esta – cuando hay un día feriado como Pascua, Navidad o Año Nuevo, normalmente me espero hasta el ultimo minuto para crear mi outfit. Obvio tengo algunas ideas en mi cabeza, y me las pruebo – a mi no me gustan las sorpresas con mi ropa (que si compre la talla equivocada, o no es apropiado para la ocasión o se me ve diferente la prenda ya que la quite del gancho). Pero la decision final de que outfit voy usar ese día no la hago hasta ese mismo día.

La razón es porque a mi me gusta vestirme dependiendo mi humor ese día, o como creo que mi cuerpo se ve y si hay un sentimiento que quiero transmitir ese día. Las veces que eh planeado un look con mucho tiempo de anticipación, normalmente lo cambio por completo. Y hago eso porque aveces dudo el look toda el día o toda la noche porque no me siento cómoda en el look o no me fascina el look.

Entonces ahorita estoy debatiendo entre todos estos outfits que les compartí en este post. Y quien sabe – puede ser que escoja un look completamente diferente que no compartí aquí. Pero lo que si se es esto: me voy a vestir en algo que me guste a mi – porque mi opinion es la más importante.

Muchas veces eh usado algo porque alguien de mi familia o una amiga me ha dicho que se me ve bien. Pero si les digo la neta, me sentía incomoda y con cero confianza en mi misma mientras traía el outfit puesto. A veces dejamos que la gente a nuestro alrededor influya nuestras decisiones de estilo – y honestamente, no deberíamos dejar que esto pase. (Y miren que a mi me ha pasado muchas veces!)

Vístanse para ustedes mismas. Si se sienten hermosas, sexy, confidentes en si mismas y felices con el outfit que escogieron – no se cambien! En vez úsenlo con toda la confianza del mundo. Porque la gente les dirá que se ven super bien (y estoy segura que si se ven hermosas!) pero porque están proyectando

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